Brands are interested in joining the conversation and have heard social media enables enriched customer relationships. Most brands will reply “we have a relationship with our customers” (usually sales or service interactions), “so we are ready for social media”. But I am talking about a relationship – a sales or service interaction tends to be a transaction (just a number in long line of transactions), not a relationship. Note: Service brands can and do build relationships via service transactions. Key element is personalized service (know me, know my history, know my pleasure and pain points, make me feel special) – great examples in my life are USAA and American Express.
Having spoke to many brands, repeatedly we discuss relationships. The question I pose is “what type of relationship do you want with your customers? Do you want a marriage? Or do you just want to date casually and see other people?”
A marriage (a good marriage that lasts) requires nourishment: sharing, sacrifice (at times), giving without expecting something in return, yielding to the other’s point of view. The marriage produces Trust, Love, and Respect – necessary to build a lasting relationship. Trust, Love, and Respect are what any brand will say “Yes, I want that.” But brands can answer too quick. What a company should first ask is, “do I want to marry this customer and what am I prepared to do from now until death do us part?”
As a customer I will start by dating the brand. Smart brands understand this is a period of courting: they woo me, demonstrate all the best things about the company (showcase products and services) to get me to the altar. And if the brand delivers on their promise a marriage can ensue. But this is where a lot of brands stop short. They get me to the alter and we exchange vows. Then I don’t hear from them until a problem arises or they have something to sell me. Think of your offline relationships – you know the friend or relative that only drops in your life when they need something – not a great relationship – not one you brag about or refer to others. The brands that I remained married to- connect with me, they do not let me down, they are there when I need them, they consistently deliver great products/service, they apologize if they screw up. And over time as the marriage ages, you have built up deposits of Trust, so one screw up does not end in divorce.
Think of the brands you Love. You Trust them because they have been there for you (good and bad times). You defend them, you share your experiences with others. Both the brand and customer are happy and committed to each other. As Andy Sernovitz reminds me, “Happy Customers are your Best Advertising”. Amen.
Brands, please remember – I can divorce you at very low cost and the break up is immediate. But a divorce for you is expensive – you are losing my revenue and I am influencing my network to reconsider their relationship with you. You then have to date a lot more people and get them to the alter – takes time and money.
For those interested, here are a some of the brands I Love:
- The Beatles
- Costco
- Ralph Lauren (Polo apparel)
- Levi’s (jeans)
- Justin Boots (Roper style)
- Maker’s Mark (I am a Maker’s ambassador – this program got me to the altar)
- Dell (spent 11 great years there, love now is more like parent/child – I know Dell’s potential, want to see them rise to better days)
And here some brands I am seriously dating:
- Acura (I drive one, they still have some work to do, but I am close to saying “I do”)
- Apple (iPhone, currently using it and loving the device)
What Brands do you Love?